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What Is Your Deal Breaker?

March 17, 2009 By Justin "JDOG" 4 Comments

Are you a good kisserI once read how subconscious processes take place while kissing, such that you are in a sense testing for biological compatibility. People who don’t like the taste of a potential mate will often screen that person out, even when they are otherwise attracted to them.

Kissing allows prospective mates to smell and taste each other’s pheromones for biological compatibility. Women are subconsciously more attracted to men whose major histocompatibility complex portion of their genome is different from their own, leading to offspring with resistance to a greater number of diseases due to heterosis, and thus having a better chance of survival. ~ except from Wikipedia

Years ago I heard a canned qualification routine about how kissing is important, and if a girl is not a good kisser then I don’t care how beautiful she is, it’s just not going to work out.. it’s a deal breaker! You would bring up such a subject after she gives you some IOI’s (Indicators Of Interest,) prior to conveying interest in her. Then you can progress happily into comfort, and kissing, etc. In the routine the guy then goes on to quiz the girl on if she is a good kisser.. challenges her.. kisses her.. and then tells her she’s average, or a solid 4 out of 10 or something. This teasing statement on the end dissipates any awkwardness, and helps maintain sexual tension. She may argue that she’s a good kisser, and you can say, ok maybe 6 or 7 out of 10 at a stretch.. hmm perhaps we just need more practice. Yes, it’s a fun little routine, and I admit to using it quite successfully.

You will find that the the more sexual choice you have, the more selective you become. This is true for both men and women. When a girl is a less than adequate kisser I’m not interested. I’m not going to give her kissing lessons.. I just lose interest. What really turns me right off though is when a girl has poor oral hygiene, tastes bad, has bad breath, or doesn’t floss!

I love.. love.. love thin and toned women.. BUT unfortunately we live in a time when it seems like every girl I meet has an eating disorder. Once you do a little googling on the subject it can be shocking to find message boards where thousands of women encourage each other to not eat, and to purge! Don’t even get me started on youtube’s thinspiration community. Hey ladies get a clue.. I’ve dumped a few girls because kissing them tasted so bad. Here’s a quote on what women think about the subject of kissing.

The other day I was walking with a friend and we got on the topic of men and their flossing habits. I asked her if it was wrong that I would stop considering a potential guy if he didn’t floss or wasn’t willing to start flossing.

I told her that non-flossing is a deal-breaker for me. It seemed so severe, so I was shocked that she actually agreed with me! This doesn’t mean we are high-maintenance, overly picky girls.

We just happen to love kissing men and insist that the recipient of our kisses provide a hygienic welcome. Personally, I don’t care if a man has a jacked-up grill. It’s how you take care of it, really. ~ from Dating Advice From a Girl

I admit it.. I AM fucking picky. Well guess what so are attractive women. So gentlemen, if you’re oral hygiene ain’t cutting it, perhaps it’s time to start putting as much emphasis into grooming, personal hygiene, and flossing, as you do on running openers.

Quite possibly all of the qualification routines out there will become true and real for you, once you reach the point where you are consistently dating the types of women you are attracted to. Until then you may have to fake it a little with the occasional story, test, challenge, routine.

So if Angelina Jolie greets you with a black tongue is she still a 10?

on't mac on women with a black tongue

Don't mac on women with a black tongue!

A black, coated tongue is a temporary, harmless condition typically resulting from an overgrowth of bacteria and sometimes yeast in the mouth. These organisms accumulate on the tiny projections of the tongue — called papillae — and cause discoloration. Certain types of bacteria and yeast make red blood cell pigments (porphyrins), which can give the tongue a black appearance. In some cases, the tongue may also appear “hairy” due to more rapid growth of papillae or an interruption of the normal shedding of cells by the tongue.

Filed Under: Dating Advice Tagged With: A3, kissing, qualification

Comments

  1. Eduardo says

    March 18, 2009 at 10:23 am

    Honestly I don’t have deal breakers I can think of right now. The way I see women is that they are all beautiful in their own way. Oh, No Fat Chicks.

    Reply
  2. Arsalan says

    March 23, 2009 at 2:15 pm

    I can be extremely picky, onion breath girls ARE turn off! or girls who come off very easy, and it happens to the extent you say, are you trying to say what I like to hear, and when they respond with yes, I just don’t like it!

    But thin girls are always great! 😀 I love the facebook group be thin or die trying 😀 ahhaha

    Reply
  3. Boêmio says

    March 24, 2009 at 10:35 pm

    Girls who smoke turn me off.

    Dude, this black tongue. I won’t get to sleep :/

    Reply

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