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Having Leverage On Yourself

August 3, 2009 By Justin "JDOG" 12 Comments

I was having an interesting chat with one of my wings recently. He said that I was unusual in the way that I stuck with learning, and practicing even when I wasn’t getting the results that I wanted. He said that from his time in the community most guys will get disillusioned and quit. He put it stronger by saying that most guys just can’t deal with getting emotionally pummeled on a regular basis from all of the rejections. So they quit before ever getting to the point where they actually start to “get it”, and they never really see consistent positive results.

So I described to him my motivation to keep going. It wasn’t a strong desire to have sex with swimsuit models, although who wouldn’t want that. Yes, wanting hotter women was a factor, but not the factor which kept me going. [Read more…]

Dealing With Approach Anxiety

August 3, 2009 By Justin "JDOG" 22 Comments

When I teach workshops I talk about many ways to deal with approach anxiety. Here are 10 quick tips on how to stop approach anxiety.

Act Like It’s A Game – When an interaction is over, just hit the reset button, and try again. You learn and get further in the game each time you hit that reset button. A game should be fun, not emotionally weighed down. Your out there to have fun, and other people’s reactions are unimportant.
Remove The Outcome – For some it helps to remove the outcome. By this I mean that they initially (while learning) should have only one goal, and that is to enjoyably learn from the interaction. Others may want to keep their eye on the ball by challenging themselves to get further, such as by setting a desired outcome in their mind before opening. That might be to bounce the girl to another venue, or to simply initiate some sort of touch during the conversation.

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The tips and insights you provide go far beyond pickup and have helped me improve every aspect of my life thus far! /// James, Tacoma, WA

Inspiration: I have mentioned this before, but I cannot help but reiterate how inspirational it is to know J Dog.

I only got to see him do a couple of sets, but the ones I saw were throwing IOIs like mad! And seeing him tool an aggressive AMOG was absolutely hilarious. He has the presence of a rock star. You feel cool just being near him.

JDog trained and coached me at Mystery’s Chicago Bootcamp. Among the instructors, most of whom I interacted with and went in field with, he was the most accessible and personal, not to mention he was the only one who completely volunteered without profit.

Very personal in training: Justin trained us in a group on story-telling. Each of us got to tell our drafts, then he’ll help edit it, and then each gets to deliver it again. I got two stories out of the session, and more importantly, I understand the principles of storytelling deeply.

Over all, among all the people at the bootcamp, both my wingman and I find the most connection with J-Dog. He is a star, but first, he is your friend. That’s what we felt after the three days.

Intellectual: Most instructors, even the big stars, state facts and use sciences without proper justification. In some way it makes sarging a semi-religion rather than a science, and most people cannot fully believe something until they understand it deeply. J-Dog instead tells us the deep science behinds the routines, the structure, and gives us a long list of books to read. These will be amazing for comfort building. Thank you for treating us like intelligent students, J-Dog.

Humble: very few successful people and PUAs are as humble as Justin. He makes you feel at an equal level when you interact with him

I found that I was able to really identify with JDog. He was the polar opposite of Matador, which made for a great Workshop. They were like Gin & Tonic.

JDog’s game is all charisma.

The students responded well to JDog. This was evident when Matador left the room and handed JDog the reigns to teach the group. Almost immediately the guys starting asking JDog questions.

When I asked JDog about where he was from, he told me ‘Arizona’ and that he had purchased his English accent from eBay. He continued to tell me that he really wanted the French accent, but was outbid at the last moment and had to settle for the English. This is who JDog is, a likeable, disarming man with a great sense of style and wicked game.

Students worked very well with JDog one-on-one. If JDog had been the only instructor at the Workshop, I still would have paid the money and felt as though I was undercharged for what I received.

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