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What Is The Mystery Method?

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March 22, 2008 by admin  
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Mystery, The Mystery Method, and The Venusian Arts Revealed..

Mystery Pickup ArtistMystery Method was a system developed to pickup women by the dating expert called Mystery, who’s real name is Erik Von Markovik.

Mystery spent years practicing how to meet women in night clubs, and social gatherings, as he had no success growing up. Mystery’s career path lead him to become a stage illusionist in Toronto, Canada, where he performed large stage shows, and smaller settings including the more intimate table magic performed at restaurants and corporate events.

“JDOG is an expert in picking up women
during the Day!” ~ Mystery

This was stated by Mystery on VH1’s The Pickup Artist when teaching the students Daytime Pickups. Mystery then deferred to JDOG for
completion of the lesson.

From those experiences, and from countless nights spent alone in clubs he developed an understanding of social dynamics, and group theory. Mystery eventually develop his experiences into a more cohesive method for seducing and attracting beautiful women.

Mystery is known more recently from co-hosting VH1’s The Pickup Artist, with JDOG, and Matador. Prior to which he was featured in Neil Strauss’ book, The Game. Many terms used in the seduction community can be attributed to Mystery, such as; Peacocking, IOI (Indicator of Interest), IOD (Indicator of Disinterest), LMR (Last Minute Resistance), using Routines, NEG’s (a back handed compliment or tease, used to disarm the “target”), and using Canned Material.

The Mystery Method M3 Model has been posted around the internet on dating and seduction message boards, where it describes Courtship as being divided in to 3 phases.

Attraction => Comfort => Seduction

Each phase is then divided into 3 sub-phases, with sets of tactics, or gambits used to move from phase to phase, whereby the ‘target’ (Mystery’s terminology for a woman that you are interested in) transitions form feelings of initial attraction through to a sexual relationship.

If you have read Mystery’s book titled, “The Venusian Arts Handbook,” then you will be familiar with the breakdown of the phases of courtship being:

A1 (Attract 1) – Opening
A2 (Attract 2) – Female to male interest (generating attraction)
A3 (Attract 3) – Male to female interest (qualify the target in order to show reasons for your attraction to her)

C1 (Comfort 1) – Comfort and Connection with your target
C2 (Comfort 2) – Trust with the girl you are seducing
C3 (Comfort 3) – Intimacy with the girl you are picking up

S1 (Seduction 1) – Arousal
S2 (Seduction 2) – LMR (Last Minute Resistance)
S3 (Seduction 3) – Sex

Has The Game Changed?

Since becoming popularized in the mass media you may be concerned, or wondering if such ‘tactics’ have become less effective. This very much appears to be the case, especially for guys who are just starting out.. with reports coming in of them being ‘busted’ in the field for using lines from The Pickup Artist, or ‘acting like one of those pickup artist guys’.

An increasing number of men are realizing that memorizing and learning “lines” and “routines” or “scripts” just isn’t them. They have also notice that meeting women that way rarely leads to happy relationships, because once the girl gets to know you the facade starts crumbling, and she will often lose attraction.

Many guys are fed up with dressing outrageously while trying to meet women using such types of club game. However, mystery method does work, but most men complain that they feel disingenuous, or manipulative, and the interesting thing is that they rarely seem to get the results that they wanted in their dating life.

This has caused more and more men to seek out a new way, a more natural and genuine way of attracting and keeping beautiful women in your life.

How can you become more naturally attractive?

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Many people are raving about a guy called JDOG, because he focuses on getting guys to unlock their emotional blocks with women, and develop a natural confidence without having to rely on pickup lines, or gimmicks to get the girl.

You might be curious, or even excited to discover that JDOG teaches guys how to become naturally charismatic, and how to organically ignite sexual tension (what a woman feels as ‘Chemistry’) with the women around you. Real and genuine attraction leads to a far stronger possibility of keeping amazing women in your life, and giving you the type of sexual choice you always wanted.

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  • DG

    Awesome that you are doing this for all of us JDOG. I was sad to see that you weren't part of the new season of the show. What can a guy my age (44) do to not be the creepy guy at a club. I don't look my age as I am often mistaken for a guy in his early 30s but I can't seem to get out of my head and be comfortable in clubs.

    Thanks

    DG

  • Looking younger than your age is certainly a huge help when wanting to meet younger women. Similarly, having a youthful vibe works wonders. Not to be mistaken with trying to look younger than you are, rather seeming like you have a hip cooler presence than most guys your age.. and conveying that to some extent in how you dress. One example is Hugh Grant in the movie, "About A Boy."

    If you follow that path, then you also have to ask yourself what justification do you have for this younger image that you portray? It's better if it makes logical sense somehow. Several things should be in alignment when leveraging an overall image in this way, such as your personality style, and your identity. Identity being various aspects about what you do in life, in addition to how you make your living.

    Of course, like you described.. what limits men the most when it comes to meeting younger women is how they feel about the situation in their own head, and their internal dialogue & emotions associated with that.

    If you want to socialise in an environment where you are much older than the average person, then you have to be 100% comfortable with the idea of being there. One of my close friends is 44, and we were having this same conversation the other day. His major sticking point is caused by the thoughts in his own head. We are often hanging out with younger women in their early 20's, and they like him (read: are attracted to him,) but he sometimes acts or says things that limit his chances.

    Some of the tactics out there that are supposed to help older guys actually hurts them, in my opinion. For example being evasive when she asks you how old you are. That can often leave a concern in her mind what will cause her to lose interest.

    When you think something is an issue, it will find a way to become an issue. I must write an article about meeting younger women.. there's just too much to articulate in this reply. It is easier than most guys think.. Younger women do have a common fantasy about older men.. but social norms and peer pressures are constantly changing. From my experience it's important for her to be intrigued, interested, attracted, and accept the age difference.

    Once she accepts the age difference as no big deal, she will convince her friends to think that it's actually a positive thing. SHE will sell her friends on the idea of you, to get their buy in. Alternatively, if by the time she introduces you to her friends she is still undecided about her feelings of being with a much older guy, then you have to convince both her and her friends that it's not creepy. You are reducing your chances and giving yourself too much work to do in the process.

    Some quick tips:
    1. Desensitise yourself to the social environment. If it's a club then go there with some positive friends 2-3 weeks in a row just to hang out and have fun there. If it's a certain type of club or bar, then similarly spend some time there having fun, and getting used to the environment.

    2. Try dissipating any possible tension about the age question early. You will have to use trial and error here to see what fits with; your vibe, your personality style, your image, and girl's common perceptions of you. One method, that just happens to be my preferred approach is to tell her indirectly how old I am very early on. This will be hinted at through stories about my life, where I specify what I was doing 10 years ago. I talk like it's no big deal. I AM comfortable with my age. Girl's get that I'm at least 10 years older than them very quickly.

    3. Talk about how younger women find you attractive.. again trial and error here, on how subtle you need to be. This also happens to be TRUE for me.. it should become true for you. If not.. fake it till you make it. I don't use routines much anymore, but I'm an excellent communicator, and I talk and tell stories about my life. One of the things I talk about is the theme of younger women. How younger women find me attractive, how I date a lot of younger women, and sometimes how I'm not happy doing so anymore, as even the more mature ones end up being immature, and acting too needy and childish. This is also true for me.

    If you haven't noticed this theme also conveys Pre-Selection, specifically with women of the same age as the girl I'm talking with. Remember though that my philosophy is one of being honest with women. Yes there is room for embellishing on stories, conversation starters, and themes.. but the general communication needn't be misleading, dishonest or manipulative.

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