AMOG stands for Alpha Male Other Guy.

I received a message on Facebook the other day asking me to explain exactly what this whole Amogging thing is about, so I figured I’d share it as the first post in the ASK JDOG discussion group.

It is an often misinterpreted concept that has caused many problems, and possibly even actual fights.

Originally it was a term used to refer to the situation when another guy would come along, and steal the attention away from the girl (or group of people) that you were talking to.

When meeting women in a bar or club many situations will arise whereby another guy will come along, and either belittle you in front of the group, or actually use physical intimidation to get you to leave.

This will be in the form of verbal put downs and sarcastic comments, or by putting his arm over your shoulder, and physically moving you out the way, or turning his back on you locking YOU out of the group… or a combination of such things. All the while he will be making a play for the girl you were just happily talking to.

In order to regain your value in the group, and to gracefully influence the other guy to leave.. AMOG-ing was born. This involved turning the tables on the other Alpha Male. Actually, here’s a problem right off the bat, the term itself implies that you yourself are in fact an Alpha Male.. and most of the time the guys who are trying to use AMOG-ing tactics are not actually alpha males themselves. Therefore they attempt to fluff themselves up, mask their insecurities, and act tough and aggressive or confrontational. Wrong!

Another mistake is to view virtually every other male in the room as an AMOG. This perception causing lots of trouble, as guys will shit talk for unnecessary one-upmanship. I have also witnessed so called PUA’s going out at night with the sole purpose of PRACTICING AMOGGING?? Get an f-ing clue guys!

Not all other guys are AMOG’s, in fact there is a difference from a guy joining the group where he actually knows, and is a friend of the girl(s) you are talking to… compared to some random guy coming over to hit on her. I discuss this when talking about dealing with Social Interruptions.

So in a nutshell befriend first, and use subtle witty comments to win back the frame if the guy is being a jerk. If he puts his arm around your shoulder.. you can counter by putting your arm over his, and then saying something like, “this is a cool guy” before he has the chance to say anything.. then turn back to the group, drop your old conversational topic, and start a new one.

If he has already started to get the attention of the group then you have to be more interesting, and more high energy.. Generally this is not as difficult as it sounds, and most guys will lose interest and leave.

If the people have already bonded with you and really enjoy your company then you could collectively just ignore the guy, or you could simply lead your girl away by the hand.

I have had some very aggressive dudes invade my social interactions, but most of the time they left non-aggressively. I have had the occasional situation where the guy was just so crazy hyper and quick witted that even I couldn’t keep up (alcohol is not just a social lubricant.. it limits your communication skills), and I found those guys pretty funny… Drinking alcohol while out will make you less capable of maintaining social control., among other things.

There are many ways to counter interruptions as I said. This post should clarify the term for many people, and for more examples I’m sure you can add to this conversation.

Cheers.. J!

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Where have you been JDOG? Whew it’s been a crazy last 4 months.. First I was teaching in London with Dr. Paul (amazing!) then I stayed in England for a month seeing old friends, and family. It had been 4 years since my last visit. Next I moved, so most of that month was packing moving, and unpacking again.

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Introduction To Sexual Communication

• How we feel
• Using Language
• Kino Escalation
• Balance of Emotions
• Vibes & Archetypes

In “I Touch Myself” we start a journey to investigate the building blocks of Sexual Communication & Masculinity.

I know that when a girl is not around me that she fantasises about me, and often times even touches herself while thinking about me! It certainly isn’t because of my looks. In fact it’s only been happening in more recent years since I truly started to feel and think differently about myself.

Once you truly like who you are as a person, once you are happy with what you do in life, and speak with conviction and passion.. and when you can look yourself in the mirror and believe that you are attractive, loveable, and deserving of a women’s affection.. when you add value to a woman’s life, both in and out of the bedroom.. when you are relaxed and confident that you don’t need anything from anybody else.. then you will find yourself communicating in a more sexually confident way.

Ok, so for some of my readers out there this may seem like an impossible task, or an overwhelming suggestion, or perhaps you are thinking, “Yes! This is Exactly how I want to feel about myself.” The good news is that there are steps you can take, and I intend to help you. Realise though that this is not an instant process, and many things feed into your self esteem and masculinity. Yes, I’m talking about the building blocks of your Self Esteem, and Masculinity here, because that is what will truly empower your sexual communication with women.

Masculine Sexual Communication Is a combination of several things, such as; how you feel about yourself, your vibe, using your language to excite her emotions, using your touch to make her anticipate being touched by you again, rolling off to convey that you are willing to walk away, and are non-needy, which in turn makes her feel much more comfortable with you.. such that she allows herself to become more turned on by you.

Failing to understand Sexual Communication is one of THE biggest mistakes I see men make, when trying to meet and attract women. Learning external skills for kino escalation, and routines is fine and dandy but without coming across with the right kind of sexual vibe, without sub-communicating real masculine sexuality, it’s unlikely that there is any real sexual tension taking place.

Now, consider what it would be like if you radiated out masculine sexuality.. no.. not in some NLP.. mind control, or kooky visualisation way.. but simply in the unspoken subtleties of your communication. If you feel confident and happy with what you are doing in life, if you actually like yourself, and if you have thoughts in your head that women like you upon meeting you..

..then something magical happens. You find that without even trying, without even thinking about it.. you start to communicate slightly differently, but these nuances have a powerful effect in how she feels about you. Because you feel better about yourself you will come across unrestricted, you will glance up and down her body, not in a needy, wanting, creepy way, but rather in a way of confident appreciation of feminine beauty.

Just like Daniel Goleman writes about in “Emotional Intelligence,” she will feel your emotions to some degree.. our brains have evolved to emulate the emotional state of those around us. She will feel a sexual confidence, and she will become more sexually excited, and interested, yet comfortable at the same time.

This is when those external skills really pay off. Your verbal teases, your touching, and rolling off, the sexual dance of one step forward and two steps back. I will be honest with you, this isn’t an easy combination of things to learn.. but once you communicate this way women will love you, and the best part is that you will just be you, without thinking about what tactic to run on her!

Live Life with Love and Passion,

JDOG!

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