Seduce Her In The Zone

It has been almost 3 months since my last confession blog post, forgive me for I have sinned been distracted by life’s unpredictability. These past few months have been a difficult and trying time for everybody, in such the depressed and turbulent global economic environment that we find ourselves in. I’ve spent the better part of this time stopping the bleeding of my own finances, and making the decision that it is finally time for me to leave Arizona.

I discovered something today, and without wanting to sound new agey or anything like that, I’m just going to come out and say it. I found Flow. OK, so not my “One Thing” in life to pursue in order to reach complete happiness ala City Slickers LOL… no, but profound non the less.

It’s really a rediscovery that in one small moment you can go from being just ok, just emotionally normal or average, to being transported instantaneously to a place where you are at complete peace, completely content, and experiencing true blissful happiness. Hyper-focused in the moment. To go one step further I feel this should be an intrinsic experience where you are doing something, not where the outcome or good emotions are Read more

How To Be More Interesting

When I teach a seminar I will ask the audience what they do on a monthly basis that other people may find interesting, and preferably something they feel passionate about. Exploring your passions, and developing them into real hobbies can have an exponentially beneficial effect on your love life.

We tend to talk with more enthusiasm about things that we are passionate about. Emotions are contagious, and those good feelings will spread to the person you are talking to. They will find you more captivating and interesting from that emotional exchange alone. Passionate talkers are often charismatic conversationalists.

Women are profoundly attracted to men that can talk with passion, conviction, and enthusiasm. If you are asking the question, “How can I talk more passionately?” Read more

Coffee Shop Day Game Save My Sanity!

On and off for the last several years I’ve worked by telecommuting, which is a widespread modern phenomenon since proliferation of the internet. Some of the advantages include; avoiding rush hour traffic, more flexible use of your work and leisure time, and working from home.

The biggest disadvantage is.. working from home! I teach interpersonal communication skills, and anyone who has telecommuted for a prolonged period of time will agree that the lack of social interaction can actually become depressing. While I don’t miss working in a cubicle I do miss the social office environment.

A few days ago I was posting on some technology message board when I stumbled upon a post from a guy who said he was so lonely working from his home office. He said that although he makes really good money, he spends on average 9 hours a day in a little room, with nobody to talk to, and the loneliness was really getting to him. Read more

I’m in a Music Video!

HOW COOL IS THIS..

Here’s an interesting factoid “JDOG appears in a music video!”: JDOG was grabbing some late night food in LA one night with Spoon from the VH1 show, when 2 fans of the show started talking to them… one of which was a very beautiful model, who had just been hanging out at the Playboy mansion.. so of course they had JDOG’s interest! They were sitting with a chap called Shaneal, an amazing musician from Australia, who had just played a gig at the Playboy Mansion that night. 

You never now who you will meet and become good friends with when you go out.. Shaneal is just an amazing individual and an incredible artist, who you should definitely checkout at www.shaneal.com. During his trip to LA Shaneal was looking to shoot the music video for the launch of his new single “Fancy Cars & Superstars.” JDOG invited Shaneal to the finale party for The Pickup Artist, and introduced him to several people involved in video production, and the next thing you know they were shooting on the famous Sunset strip in West Hollywood. You can checkout the video below:

I get into the limo at [1:50] and then you see clips of me dancing & partying with everyone

UPDATE: Here’s another clip that Shaneal sent me: